5 Good Things Busy Couples Get from Spending A Romantic Getaway
Busy couples plan on how to spend their free time and weekends together as much as possible. Work and other responsibilities are reasons why their individual schedules get easily filled up.
If you are planning to go for a trip with your partner, you might have some hesitations because of your paranoia with the financial expenses and the thought that “I have to finish some work” or “I want to do them in advance to avoid piling up”. Well, if you really want to make the most out of every available and “workless” day, a romantic getaway is something the both of you must consider.
Here are 5 good things you, busy couples, can actually get from spending a romantic getaway!
#1: RARITY APPRECIATION
A time for a getaway that happens rarely is something to be treasured and very much appreciated. You can better cherish the moment since it’s not every week that you get to travel to some new and refreshing place together.
You should put tons of efforts in planning for your trip so that you can maximize your precious time bonding and having fun. The bonding you have at home or when you are in the places you usually visit is upgraded and made extra special if you choose a beautiful romantic getaway spot somewhere far or even if it’s near, it’s something brand new to the both of you.
#2: CATCHING UP
If you are both busy, it’s sad if you are not able to catch up with each others’ life updates in detail and with clear and heart-to-heart communication. Sometimes, you just spend a little time talking about things that immensely matter just because you are dumped under your mountainous workload and badly in need of sleep.
Spending a romantic getaway isolates you from the rest of the world, without the disturbances and distractions of worries, will be a perfect time to talk about stories you’ve been waiting to spill. It’s hard to grow drifting apart. It’s healthy for your relationship that you always catch up, talk about a lot of stuff, share your problems and help each other. Communication is always key despite the inevitable busyness of your work schedules.
#3: REST AND RELAXATION
Both of you need to take a break from all the stresses of work and businesses. If you’ve been having misunderstandings recently because of your short temper or if you’ve been more irritable these past few days, you might just need to cool your head off and rest and relax together.
You’re not you when you’re tired and stressed, and a romantic getaway will make you ease off and loosen up to make you realize yourself again and be calm. It’s a time for both of you to recharge your bond as well especially if your hectic schedules don’t agree with each other.
In your romantic getaway, you should just set aside everything that will remind you of work and your tasks which you can go back to after your time off. While you’re on your leave or unbusy day, make sure you really pay attention to getting relaxed and rejuvenated with your partner. It’s a physical revitalization and also emotional and relational.
#4: REALITY ESCAPE
You need to unwind once in a while together amidst your weariness and work-filled schedules. Sometimes, when you make decisions together, things are hard to handle. Reality is really difficult to understand at times and it frustrates you.
With a romantic getaway, even temporarily, you can escape the stressful reality — the reality that the city’s air is too polluted, the traffic is slower than ever and the work left for you to do goes in bundles. Don’t be hard on yourself, pushing yourself to work and work and work until you accomplish everything.
Sometimes, you need to take a step out of the reality zone so you can enjoy your time and let yourself pause and breathe without headaches. You might be a busy couple, but you’re not that harsh to yourselves and to each other by taking a break from work.
#5: EXPLORE TOGETHER
It’s great to travel the world solo, but because you have your significant other, it’d be a pleasing thing to explore it together. Even though you’re busy with work, still aim for learning outside the work area and into the bigger world out there! Visit awesome places, get into thrilling adventures, try delicious food, meet hospitable people.
Do these and so much more together. Make beautifully unforgettable moments and gain lovely experiences together and not just mere money and certificates of accomplishments.
A BREAK TOGETHER
Let not your extreme passion for work dull the light in your healthy relationship. Spend time and don’t count it as loss but as a gain for the profit of your relationship. Go for a romantic getaway when needed and even just when it’s wanted.
Indeed, there’s financial spending and you’ll have to halt working for a short time, but remember that being overly busy with work cannot match the special time that you and your partner can spend together.
Your remarkable romantic getaway is something money can’t replace and work overtime can’t equal.
AUTHOR BIO: Nicole Ann Pore is a writer, an events host and a voice over artist. Travel, health, shopping, lifestyle and business are among the many subjects she writes about. Through quality and well-researched writing, she informs and even entertains readers about things that matter. She is also interested in film critiquing and filmmaking. Giving all the glory to God, Nicole graduated Cum Laude from De La Salle University Manila, Philippines with a Bachelor’s Degree in Communication Arts.