In this fast pacing life of 21st century, “working parents” is a trend and even though a need too in maintaining a standard societal life and to meet the needs and demands of their children too. But somewhere in this chaos children are lacking the deserved attention and teachings(not the bookish one though) from their parents.
Personality development is one of the basic trait that the parents should be giving their children in their growing years.
A good “personality” doesn’t only help you in your professional field but also makes you an attractive person and helps you in dealing with various life’s situations.
So this summer vacation, alongside the completion of the school’s Holiday Homeworks, parents should teach their children and make them indulge in various activities for the development of their personality.
This can be done by the following ways:-
1)Send them for any Summer Camps:-
There are numerous Summer Camps which are held for a period of 2-3 weeks every year where children get to do different activities in groups and explore their talents.
These kind of Camps help children in developing their communication skills and teach them team-work. It teaches “adjustments” to them as they have to leave their nature of throwing tantrums and adjust with the people around them and their ideas. Sometimes a child develops leadership skill also in this journey.
2) Having a family time:-
Having a proper family time contributes a vast part in a child’s personality development. Children, if not a good listener but they are a very good observer. They learn quickly by observing people’s behaviour. Parents should take their child to some holiday destination and make them learn by observing things. Instead of teaching them verbally parents should themselves become a good example to their child and teach them the values of helping, sharing, compromising and compassion.
3) Indulge them in making mistakes:-
This is a very crucial part of one’s personality development. Don’t be so hard and rude on your child when they make mistakes, instead keep an eye on their mistakes, indulge them on making it. Later on make them realise it and teach them to be calm and make them learn from their mistakes.
It helps them to be more smart and they they will never lose hope instead it keeps them going on in their life without giving up on their goals.
4) Make your children adaptable to the changing environments:-
Change the attire of your house or just make your child meet new people or make them learn new skills, these things make them adaptable towards the “change” and way to handle it which will slowly make them more confident. And when they actually face in real life they will not adamant to the changes and eventually will not resist it.
5) Teach them to be always kind and humble:-
These two characters make any person more attractive and is the strongest personality traits. Parents should always teach their children that how much they learn and how successful they become “kindness” and “humbleness” should be the key features of their personality.