(It’s all about love)
Have you ever talked to someone through an Instagram story about ‘depressed soul’ and found your true love while discussing with the person who you uploaded the story for? Does the soul connections or so-called soul mates exist online? Well, now I can say they do.
A simple Discussion
I remember our first conversation, a deep discussion on an Instagram story about being fu*ked up by our own stupid mind and those super cheesy feelings. That discussion about ‘true love’, cursing it and then whining about the same, as I had then just broken up, did the unimaginable. But this turned out as a life-changing conversation for me. What an irony, that in a conversation, in which I was profaning my meaning of love, gave me my true love.
So talking about “true love” is all about a lot of strength, care and, guidance even if online. That special feeling is apprehended and is hard to express in words. The butterflies you get when you realize that someone is there who is waiting, far away, for you to get up so he can see your face and listen to your voice is so beautiful. When you are in love, you have all the strength and optimism of the world. You have all the support and encouragement needed to achieve any dream you can fantasize of. Also called the power of “true love”.
“Getting loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone gives you courage,”.
This power is so eternal and makes you so much complete.
Long Distance Hardship
That feel of completeness, yeah, an important thing in love and is a difficult thing to take up in a long distance relation. In a long distance relationship is not at all easy, since it was all online. Takes a huge effort, trust, and investment of a huge time currency for the success of a long distance (LD) relationship, but since the level of madness, I did it all just for him. The longings of being with him, in his arms, close to him lead to a lot of unrest. Surely tough, but true love never ever comes easy I knew that well enough now. Since I had my first one broken, as had happened with all, I tended to be careful. But careful went to hell as soon as I fell for him, but made it sure that this time I made no mistakes. And being all online on Instagram gave a perfect cherry on the top to all those insecurities.
“Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it” is understood by people in an LD relation. The wait to see your loved one ultimately increases the craze and excitement for one meeting, even if online, that you are ready to dismiss any flaws. That much hard I fell for him. This is the beauty of online social media platforms.
Now here is a thin line between love and lust, has to be understood properly. A simple difference between ‘I love her, so I want her’ and ‘I want her, so I love her’. The slight difference between need and want, explains all. And I thereafter understanding it met my soul connection online to become the happiest in all the world.
Love is so beautiful. It’s all about giving expecting nothing in return. This is abstract, and requires huge efforts of portraying in words, and is finally written as-:
I felt him. I love him, truly love him. And this is the beauty of that online Instagram story discussion that made me felt the power of love.